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August 18

Pleased to meet you anyway...

Holy crap. Time stood still a lot longer than I intended.
 
It has been over a year since I posted. SO much to catch up on...where to even begin...
 
I don't know where to begin. I'll need to think about it...
 
Should I start from right now, ignoring everything that happened in the past year, or should I pick up where I left off?
 
Hmmmmm. 
June 11

Time Stands Still

I'm crazy busy right now taking 4 masters classes. Things will ease up at the end of June and I'll update!
 
In the meantime check out my friend's new single from his duo "Edison Gem"  that is now available on i-tunes:
 
And alls I have to say is....
 
GO MAVS!!!!!
May 23

B-Ballers...shot callers

GO MAVS!!!!!
 
Today is all about sports, the Mavericks in particular...
 
For those of you who haven't already figured this out, I'm a woman in my 20s and I am a sports nut. A discriminating one, but a sports nut all the same. I have been a STL Cardinals fan since birth (it's in my blood), a Duke BBall fan, Blues Hockey, F1 Ferrari and PSG Soccer. Then when we moved to Texas I adopted the Mavericks.
 
My husband is not a sports nut. He is just now learning about baseball, basketball and hockey. Like most Europeans he played soccer, but he's not really a sports watcher, until this basketball season.
 
This basketball season has really brought out the best BBall has to offer. The Mavericks have become true contenders and have been in a hotly contested series with arguably the best team in basketball to be the king of the hill.
 
All teams that I am a fan of have a rivalry, STL fans don't like the Cubs and the Astros, Duke hates Carolina, the Blues hate the Blackhawks, every F1 fan either loves or hates Ferrari, PSG fans hate OM....
 
The Mavericks didn't really have a rivalry going, for a while there they weren't on the radar enough to matter. The past couple of years have changed that. This year in particular, under the excellent leadership of Avery Johnson and the support of Mark Cuban, the Mavs have really come into their own. A rivalry has sprouted in the form of the Mavs vs. the Spurs. It was brewing for a few years as these teams faced off in the playoffs, but this year it has exploded into the forefront as the Mavs have stepped up their game and given San Antone a run for their money. I am a fan of sports rivalries for a number of reasons:
 
  1. They bring a sense of unity to large metropolises like Dallas and San Antonio. The DFW metroplex is huge and sprawling. Crossed from end to end at the longest point its probably a 2 hour drive. Dallas people look down on Fort Worth people and vice versa, but when one of our Pro teams is going gang busters, all of the distance seems to melt away. Cats are running with dogs and we're all united in one thing (our disklike of the Spurs in this case)
  2. Successful rivalries bring pride to where you live. I think most people who lived in the metroplex in the dynasty of THE Cowboys felt like at least they had that going for them. The economy wasn't great, the weather is hot here, traffic sucks, but our Football team kicks Redskin butt!!!
  3. It's good for the economy! When rivalries are within a reasonable drive or flight (Cards/Cubs, Yanks/Sox, Mavs/Spurs) people will travel if possible. What could be better for the economy of cities like Dallas and San Antonio than people coming to visit? I think it couldn't be a better rivalry, I think people enjoy coming to Dallas for the great nightlife, shopping and food and people love going to San Antonio for the beautiful city, the tex-mex and the riverwalk (even if they are afraid of falling in). People from San Antonio who otherwise may not be inclined to come to Dallas for a visit, might do so otherwise if their team is playing the Mavs! People who couldn't get tickets pack bars and increase revenue! Its a win win! It's not like its soccer hooligans coming to town!
  4. It gives our teams TV time. Yeah, I can watch the Mavs on local TV most of the time, but not always and the TV coverage is mediocre. Increased fan interest will lead to increased TV coverage.
 
On another front, I am noticing more and more women my age being truly interested in sports, basketball especially...I have been wondering why this is. I don't know WHY men watch sports, but I have an idea about what draws women to sports and I think a couple of factors come into play with this recent upsurge in interest:
 
  1. More women my age have been involved in seriously competitive amateur sports (that aren't figure skating, equestrian or gymnastics) and now even some are legitimately (who could compete with either men or women) involved in tradionally male professional sports...Michelle Wie, Annika, the Williams sisters, Cheryl Swoops, Mia Hamm, Danica Patrick, etc. So females are more involved in amateur and professional sports than ever.
  2. The NBA in particular has made a concerted effort towards marketing to women. They have a tough female ref, Violet Palmer, the first woman EVER to officiate a major mens' sport at the top pro level. Cheryl Miller, a former bballer herself, is an interviewer (although I did notice last night that she was wearing a mens' shirt). These female faces make basketball feel like less of a boys' club and more of a basketball lovers' club.
  3. The WNBA, okay its not the most popular thing going, BUT it is a professional, legitimate sports organization for women and they do get air time! Even if I like men's basketball better, as a woman I feel better about the NBA as an organization for their open support of the WBNA.
  4.  Sports are like the reality dramas and soap operas that many women enjoy. When you have a consistent team like the Mavs, with a steady roster of several excellent players, you get invested in the "Characters".

    I have favorites...Stackhouse is my favorite Maverick. Sure it's kind of arbitrary, but I like his "character". He's the old-school star who examines the game from the bench, analyzing what he's going to do and comes into the game and cleans up. That may or may not be what actually goes on, but it's what I imagine. I like Diop because he's the underdog, the player that other teams gave up on, he comes to the Mavericks and is not the best player, but I think the Mavs have brought out the best in him. He makes big plays and delivers, he DENYS Tim Duncan! I like Josh Howard, he looks kind of like Steve Urkel, he's tall and skinny and has braces and is just kind of goofy looking, you put a basketball in his hand and he is like that metal guy from the terminator, twisting, turning and making it look easy. I like Dirk, the self-effacing German superstar that makes all his free throws by singing a David Hasselhoff song in his head...I'm looking for freedom....

    Beyond investing in the "Characters" you also get wrapped up in the dramatic story arcs, will Dirks ankle be strong enough to get him through the series, will Terry's suspension lead to ruin, will Ginobli dive so hard that he hurts himself, will Tim Duncan go as far as crocodile tears to contest a foul...This series between the Mavs and the Spurs has been full of more drama than the OC. Every game practically has been a total nailbiter, I'm telling you girls, it's wayyyyy more engaging than whether or not Kirsten is going to start drinking again, or if Marissa and Ryan break up again! My mother, who has never watched a game of basketball in her life was GLUED to my TV last night whooping and hollering along with me as the Mavs crushed San Antonio's comeback dreams...my mother...
 
I think it goes without saying that I am impressed with how Avery Johnson has turned this team around. It's not like the Mavericks were losers when he inherited them, but I don't think anyone imagined them beating the SPURS in a series. I'm not even sure Avery imagined it himself.
 
Mark Cuban also takes a lot of credit for investing in the right coach and players. A lot of people hate Mark Cuban, he definitely has a strange fashion sense and he *does* kind of resemble Herman Munster, but I personally think he's a cool cat. He has brought a magic to this team by getting fans involved, giving away free tickets to youngsters who paint themselves in Mav colors, lowering ticket prices, speaking his mind and paying the fines for doing so, but there are 2 things in particular about him that impress me the most:
 
  1. He still sits in the same season ticket seats that he had before he was an owner. Many team owners sit distanced in stiff suits from the team and the fans in a private box. He's right there in the middle of things wearing his goofy clothes.
  2. He cares about this team. Mark Cuban isn't about the Mavs as a money machine, I'm sure he's smart enough to recognize that if you run a sports franchise where the players and the fans are all happy that the money will come. If you run a sports franchise based on the bottom line, well, it may end up being counterproductive (Florida-cough-marlins). I'm sure Mark isn't bleeding money out over the Mavericks, but it's obvious that this is more than about money to him, it's about winning, its about DFW, its about the game, the fans, the players and fun!!! When you watch Mark, he's having a GOOD TIME!!!!!

    Part of this caring for the team is demonstrated by Cuban's respect for the average fan. So many sports teams have priced tickets out beyond belief and most of the people there are casual fans to see and be seen who have corporate seats and privileged lifestyles. The Mavericks organization has ensured that everyone and anyone can get involved in this club and see a game. I think they are even offering $10 tickets next year!! I just bought TWO  tickets for Friday night's game against the Suns at the ticket drop this morning for less than $35 dollars a piece including all those dang charges Ticketmaster adds to everything. There isn't a more entertaining ticket in town for that price.

Not like anyone involved with the Mavericks would ever read this, but on the odd chance, thanks guys for everything you've done to bring honor to DFW and affordability to a pro sport. I can't wait for the game on Friday!!!!

 

GO MAVS!!!!!

 

May 16

Hush, keep it down now...

Things just get stranger here at sprocket town. CFO Tulip asked for a few days to come up with a transition plan for me leaving. She didn't want me to tell anyone about my resignation. I'm sure she's trying to do damage control, which doesn't bother me. What perplexes me is that it seems to me as of right now that she's just pretending I haven't resigned, as if she ignores it that it will go away.
 
I'm having a harder and harder time keeping quiet about it because there are practical matters I need to get taken care of like cleaning out my office and making arrangements for some of my administrative tasks and training duties. She told the consulting firm I work closely with though and they offered me a job working externally for my same company. So, I would be consulting to the sprocket company rather than working directly for them. CFO Tulip is kind of encouraging me to do that, I suppose it would make a much easier transition for her, but they haven't come forward with any solid financial proposals or how exactly they envision that working considering I don't want to work more than 5-10 hours a week, don't want to travel anymore and want to work from home.
 
 
Oh, and how about those Mavericks? They really need to start these games earlier! The game last night wasn't over until after midnight. Anyone else think Charles Barkley is the most wheels off commentator on any sport?
May 10

Breaking up is hard to do

Yesterday was resignation day. I was a nervous wreck. I have been seriously ill with Mononucleosis the past 2 weeks, it was only my second day back in the office, so that added to the nerves.
 
I'm the kind of person that always wanted to present first in class, get it over with and set the pace is my philosophy when it comes to things that make me nervous or uncomfortable. So, I wanted to resign first thing in the morning.
 
I am also the kind of person who is not a fan of change. Even if it is a change in the right direction, change is nerve wracking for me. I am a planner, I HATE surprises, I like for things to be clear and obvious. When you're dealing with things like a person's reaction to your resignation there is no clear and obvious. That is especially true in this sprocket company where one day you're the best thing since sliced bread and the next they're throwing papers at your head.
 
I left for the office with my crisp letter in a thick envelope. Formal paper for a formal occasion. I had rehearsed in my head a million times what I wanted to say. I wanted to come across as relaxed, not angry, I wanted them to understand that this was more than just the work, that it was also a serious personal choice and lifestyle change as well. I wanted them to understand that this decision was a very long time coming, that this was not a snap reaction to anything recent.
 
The day conspired against me. I picked up a diet coke that morning on my way from McD's. I needed it to calm my jitters. Instead my jitters caused the cup to fly out of my hand and land all over the passenger side of my car. Thankfully not on my letter. So no diet coke.
 
I arrived at work early. I wanted to get my computer in order before I resigned so that on the bizarre chance I was escorted out of the building, at least I would have copies of essential documents. In the middle of cleaning up on my computer, the fire alarm goes off. We just had a drill 3 weeks ago, so this was a real alarm. We all ran out of the building carrying all the belongings we could possibly handle. Which is the exact opposite of the relaxed saunter out of the drill. No one was trampled though.
 
After waiting an hour outside I finally get back in and finished getting my computer cleaned. By that time though, CFO Tulip, who I intended to resign to was wrapped up in meetings. She wasn't available until 3. Gave me plenty of time to get heartburn and nervous twitches. Gone the cool, relaxed, enter frantic and ill. Friends outside of worked called me every 5 minutes, "So, have you told them yet?" making me more nervous.
 
I went in to talk to Tulip and shut her office door, which immediately triggered the "Oh my Gosh" button in her head. We aren't a closed door company. I said my rehearsed piece as best I could and her reaction was unexpected, she gasped very dramatically and asked, "Why? WHY? WHHHYYY?" I did my best to placate her questions with platitudes about life balance, hating to drive 3 hours a day, lifestyle change, etc. While she acknowledged all of these things as legitimate reasons, she cut straight to the chase, "It's VP Vernon isn't it?"
 
Hopefully I left her wondering in the end if it really was VP Vernon or not. I honestly meant everything I told her about lifestyle change, but sure if this company was run by sane people, it might have been a much harder decision.
 
She was genuinely upset about my choice, but was happy that I'm willing to work with them on transition. Everything worked in my favor and I'm happy with the decision and the outcome....so far. But today I'm expecting a visit from Presidents Mugabe and Hirohito and my arch-enemy VP Vernon. They may not be as reasonable as CFO Tulip.
 

Onto a totally different topic. I love the Dallas Mavericks!!!! I am a fan in the regular season, but this post season I've become a crazy fan. The game last night in San Antonio was sensational. The stars aligned and everything went right for the Mavericks. It was beautiful and I hope that the Mavericks will get a bit more of the respect they deserve. Avery is an awesome coach and he made all the right changes, adding Harris to the starting line up was genius!! Every dunk, steal, breakaway play I was on my feet in the living room hollering! The Spurs looked like a College ball team trying to keep up with an NBA team last night. Avery, Dirk, Terry, Howard, Diop, Dampier, Harris and MY MAN Stackhouse (and even weirdo Mark Cuban), I love you guys. We're going all the way this year!!!
 
 
 
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